I started playing tennis when I was about thirteen years old. I started by going to the courts with my friend and his older brothers, who were playing high school tennis. I would take one of my parents’ old wooden rackets that had been stored away. We rarely hit a ball in the court. But something about that environment grabbed me, and a desire to play developed. I wanted to learn to play tennis, not just hit balls.
I got some instruction from my friend’s brothers and kept going to the courts practicing what I learned, observing players, and mimicking what I saw. When I reached high school, I had the opportunity to start the school tennis program. And for the first time I got some real instruction on how to properly serve. It is hard to play a game of tennis if you do not serve the ball.
Serving starts the point. And without a proper serve there is no way for there to be a competitive point, game, or match. Learning a proper serve was very important.
As church members we must learn to serve. In one sense, part of our new nature gives us the desire to serve. But we also must be discipled to serve. We need to be put in an environment to serve. We need a culture of serving one another.
In John 13, as Jesus washed the disciples’ feet that was unusual, but it did not come out of nowhere. In many ways it was like me as a young teenager. I was around tennis, I was watching tennis, and I began to play tennis. But I needed someone to show me how to serve and then give me instructions to improve that serve until it was a proper serve.
If you are already involved in a ministry in the church, be observant of those who are hanging around. Come alongside them and begin including them in serving. Show them how you do what you do and encourage them in their attempts until their serving becomes natural for them.
If you are not currently serving the church but have a desire for God to use you in His kingdom and for His glory, then get on the court. Be with the church in as many situations as possible. Attend every service. Go to Bible studies that are offered during the week. Be present. Ask questions of those who you see serving in ministries to which you are drawn. Be available. God wants His people to love one another by serving one another. There are hundreds of ways that can be done each and every week. I know the following list may be long, but grab one or more of these ideas, and take a swing. You will be serving before you know it.
- Welcome people as they come in and help them find where they need to go
- Volunteer in the church nursery
- Provide a ride for people who cannot drive (children, elderly, disabled, etc)
- Host a “Parent’s night out” with childcare
- Stick around to clean up after service or special events
- Mentor younger church members, couples, or families
- Visit people in the hospital
- Run copies for Sunday school teachers, class leaders
- Help set up for special events
- Stuff envelopes in the church office
- Call and invite new visitors to return
- Teach a class
- Sing in the worship choir, praise team, or play an instrument
- Send cards to people who have recently had a baby or other exciting life event
- Send cards to those in the hospital, battling illness or who have lost a loved one
- Hold an umbrella for people coming in/leaving on rainy days
- Help finalize details for special events
- Work in AVL ministry
- Fix broken items around the church
- Help out with the student ministry
- Paint or decorate outdated classrooms
- Shovel snow in the winter
- Do yardwork/housework for church members who need help
- Drive children/teens to off-campus church activities/events
- Pray for the pastors, staff, church members, missionaries, and those in your community
- Volunteer in the church office
- Retrieve parents of crying children from service
- Offer medical assistance when someone has a medical emergency
- Record videos to use during service or in the youth group
- Answer the phone
- Run errands for supplies
- Work with the security team
- Periodically roam the hallways to help people find their way to ministries or classes
- Invite other families over for lunch after church
- Donate candy, pencils, Bibles, food and other supplies
- Offer wedding planning
- Help with social media or websites
- Take pictures of special events
- Gather everyone’s information for the church directory
- Organize the resource center or library
- Offer counseling to hurting church members
- Compliment others regularly
- Introduce people to each other
- Coordinate a special service project opportunity
- Work with children’s music programs
- Be the first to participate, to encourage others to participate too
- Help organize vacation Bible school
- Knit blankets for new babies (either for the nursery or to take home)
- Restock pews with offering envelopes and pen
- Bring small toys to give to children in the service
- Be responsible for advertising church events in your community
- Direct traffic after service lets out
- Start and maintain a “Jobs” or “Opportunities” bulletin board
- Open your home for youth group events
- Help late-comers find seats
- Decorate for Christmas
- Set up a clothes donation box (particularly winter gear) for those in need
- Sit near the front or back of church to minister to those who need someone to talk to
By His Grace and For His Glory,
Pastor Mark

